I am moved to go this direction because of what I encountered today. It is becoming an increasing phenomenon seeing casualties of broken relationships breaking down sometimes to the point of death or becoming a vegetable.
I want you to know that nothing in this world is worth dying for. Look at yourself in the mirror; who YOU see is who you are. You should not allow the judgement of others run you down. You came into this world without any worry. You lived in your mother’s womb without a jist mate and you survived.
Always remember great men have threaded this earth. They left and the world remained. You survived all the years before you got married, who said your survival instinct is finished?
It pains my heart seeing how many women(and some few men) have gone into mental and physical trauma because of failed relationships. Some women end up raving mad, down with strokes etc. For what? Your death will not stop your partner from his/her philandering.
Let our mantra be “My happiness is my decision.”. Make up your mind to be happy and you have won your greatest battle. Storms come, storms go, survivors stay alive to testify.
She is the founder of Cassandra's Diary, a forum for trashing out issues in families.
Married to Dele, they are blessed with 3 children, Temi, Tolu and Alexandra.
In summary, my team and I, we are counselors and public speakers with a passion to raise model families.