A VALUABLE RELATIONSHIP
There are reasons why relationships evolve and as such, every relationship is defined and classified. It could be for business, friendship, religion, fraternising etc. The fact remains that, you must have met somehow, somewhere and have stayed together for a reason.
There however, should be a clear vision of what each party wants from the relationship. Business partners come together to contribute their quota and share profits. Lovers come together to create fulfilment in the relationship. People come together to worship God as a group.
This brings to fore, the question of value. Are you adding value to that relationship? Can you truly say you are giving fulfilment to the person/those in it with you? As a member of a family, if you are not around, will anyone miss you and what you do? If your friend walks out of your life, will he miss the values you had added to him in the reationship? If you pull out of that business, will your partners go on without missing your values?
I think it is time we begin to make ourselves the value others are looking for. The day you stop expecting anything from others, is the day disappointment is removed from your dictionary. Build yourself up. Let people begin to see you as a solution provider. Learn SOMETHING about everything, and learn EVERYTHING about something. Move with the time in knowledge, but don’t be carried away with the time.
Gone are the days when women look up to men as sole providers. Stop being a woman that needs a man but rather, be the woman that a man needs. Do not hide under submission to be a burden to your man. Be every inch a lady, but work like a boss. Combine the ministries of home, career, society woman, extended family matriach successfully. ADD VALUE to your family.
Hey guys! kudos to those who have been the shoulder the families have been resting on. But guys, you can still up your game. Help create values in the children. Stop providing only the money. Add the values needed in your relationship. Watch and see how God blesses you for those times you attend PTA meetings, Opening days etc.
Hello people, what are the things that will be missed if you are transfered from that church or you leave that group? Are you present in every meeting to just to count? Please release that value in you. Let it be a blessing to the relationship. What’s up my talented friend? No one will blow your trumpet except you unleash that talent yourself. The world believe what they see easily. Talent promotes only if the talented exhibits it.
My friend, I have said my own because I have a relationship with you and I am bound to ADD VALUE. Go out and add value to others including me. Say something to me too. Have a splendid day and God bless you.
She is the founder of Cassandra's Diary, a forum for trashing out issues in families.
Married to Dele, they are blessed with 3 children, Temi, Tolu and Alexandra.
In summary, my team and I, we are counselors and public speakers with a passion to raise model families.