MARRIAGE AND HEAVEN FLIGHT
Marriage and the Heaven Flight
We have heard many times that the race to heaven is not a roller coaster. It is a matter of willingness and determination aided by grace.
I have found out that one thing that aptly describes the sins that easily beset us is malice between couples.
We easily counsel, “Do not sleep over your quarrels.” It is a fact however, that, most times we engage in a game of who capitulates first. Each partner, especially the one who is at the receiving end feels it will be unfair to apologize first.
I was recently in a programme some times ago and a man of God asked all of us to apologize to whoever has wronged us. That it is not for us to wait until the person apologizes. Oh oh oh! I exclaimed because I remembered a betrayal that I have tried to let go. I have even tried to convince myself that I don’t have any grudge but just hurting. I told myself, just let the person be.
Someone might be saying, you don’t know my wife. She is devil reincarnate. Would you prefer she be the reason you’ll miss your flight to heaven? It would have been better you were single, if marriage is the reason you’ll end up in hell.
Folks, remove your toga of pride. It doesn’t remove a cubit from your stature if you are the first to end a quarrel. It simply means, you are the matured one. You’ll be gaining a lot more than you can imagine if you free your system of grudges. It makes you radiate with beauty and healthy.
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She is the founder of Cassandra's Diary, a forum for trashing out issues in families.
Married to Dele, they are blessed with 3 children, Temi, Tolu and Alexandra.
In summary, my team and I, we are counselors and public speakers with a passion to raise model families.